By Sivan Rahav Meir
Jerusalem Itself ConsolesThere are hardly words to describe this past Shabbat. Dozens of police officers who werewounded in the line of duty came to Jerusalem for a special Shabbat of strength andsupport. There were lectures, tours, festive meals, songs and, above all — appreciation.
Throughout the weekend, I heard extraordinary stories of heroism. Stories of physical andemotional wounds. Stories from October 7 that we will probably never fully comprehend.
Again and again, one idea came up, something we often hear from groups that visitJerusalem. The prophet Yeshayahu says: “And in Jerusalem you shall be comforted.”Jerusalem itself offers comfort.
It is a source of strength and consolation. It does not erasethe pain or the challenges, but it gives them meaning. It connects each person’s private storyto the larger story of our people.One woman from Ramat Gan told me that her husband, a police officer, left home at 6:30 onthe morning of Oct. 7, first for Be’eri and then for Sderot, where he was wounded.“After welcoming Shabbat at the Kotel with thousands of people,
after Jews from abroadstop to hear our story, after we walk quietly through the magical alleyways of Nachlaot,learning about its history and looking one another in the eye, we return to our everyday lives with renewed strength.”Thank you to the Ministry of National Security and to the minister himself who spent the whole Shabbat with the officers. Thank you to the Ministry of Heritage—its director general was also with them throughout Shabbat.
Thank you to Golan Azulai, who accompanied us over the weekend, and to Racheli Hadad and the entire staff of the Western Wall HeritageFoundation.How fitting to hold such an event on the Shabbat preceding Tisha B’Av.And in Jerusalem, may we be comforted.A Torah Scroll of HopeIt is deeply moving to document the Jewish people finding their way back to themselves.
Last week, I wrote here about the shul that opened for the first time in Kibbutz Kissufim,near the Gaza border. The kibbutz members are returning home, and have established thefirst shul in their community.After reading the post, a reader named Ashira Landau contacted me and asked to be put intouch with someone from the kibbutz. And that is how the next chapter of the story began.Ashira is a single woman in her forties.
When she turned 40, she decided to commission aTorah scroll dedicated to the single men and women of the Jewish people. It was a creative idea, even an unusual one. Torah scrolls are generally written in memory of those who have passed away, but Ashira wanted hers to convey a different message—one of life, hope and prayer.
She launched a crowdfunding campaign, and quickly raised the necessary funds. She then
approached a Torah scribe and asked him to write what would be the first Torah scroll
dedicated to the singles of Israel.
I met Ashira when the final letters were being written and the Torah scroll was brought to
the “Tent of Heroism,” a site established by bereaved families at the entrance to Jerusalem
at the beginning of the war. It was an emotional occasion, attended by hundreds of young
people (and some not so young), who are still searching for the person with whom they will
build their lives.
The Tent of Heroism had a profound impact, but Shabbat services are no longer held there,
and Ashira began searching for a new home for the Torah scroll.
“I called Gal Ofri from Kibbutz Kissufim,” she told me. “He looked into it and called me back
almost immediately, overcome with emotion. The entire congregation had agreed: They
would be delighted to receive the Torah scroll. They are already planning a festive
dedication ceremony. At the end of the call, he said to me, ‘Ashira, you have found a home
for your Torah scroll.’”
And now, a religious single woman and the secular members of a kibbutz are working
together to plan the celebration.
This week, Ashira wrote to them:
“You are seeking to rebuild your home, and we, too, are seeking to build homes of our own.
How fitting that we should join together on this journey. It is a tremendous privilege to know
that after all you have endured, you will read the weekly Torah portion from this scroll. And
how fitting that all our journeys share one word: kissufim, longing.”
After Tisha B’Av: Days of Comfort
These are days of comfort. Do we know this? Do we feel it?
Our sages explain that after the great darkness of the days of destruction, after Tisha
B’Av, and beginning from Tu B’Av, a light of comfort and joy begins to shine. Let’s try
to recognize and connect to the Jewish pulse that beats now: after Tisha B’Av come
seven Shabbatot called “Sheva D’Nechemta” (Seven of Comfort), named after the
seven haftarot of comfort that are read on Shabbat in shuls. This begins this
Shabbat, with the words “Comfort, comfort My people, says your God.” For
thousands of years, the words of the prophets read during this time of year gave our
ancestors strength and encouragement, through all the exiles and troubles.
Comfort is the expertise of women and mothers. See what a wonderful metaphor
the prophet Yeshayahu writes. God tells us: “As one whom his mother comforts, so
will I comfort you.” That is, one must comfort in a natural and loving way, as a
mother hugs and soothes her child. This is the model.
When we want to comfort and strengthen someone, we need to see that our words
are precise and truly healing. In the Gemara there is a concept of “vain
consolations.” These are consolations that harm more than they help. It’s worth
thinking about what we say and what the person facing us needs to hear.
May we merit comfort and good news.
Translated by Yehoshua Siskin and Janine Muller Sherr
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